Private parties · Online invitations

A birthday invitation worth sending.

Whether it is a small birthday dinner or a surprise celebration, guests should know the plan before they say yes. Start with the date and setting, then make the invitation personal.

Create before signing up. You choose where to share the guest link.

Three simple steps

  1. 1Choose a birthday theme
  2. 2Add time and a clear guest message
  3. 3Share privately and check replies

Guest link

Share it your way.

Guest RSVPs

Plans, not location tracking.

Private by design

Not a public event listing.

Set the mood, not just a date

For a surprise birthday, tell guests when to arrive and what to keep confidential. For a casual celebration, explain whether there will be food, dancing or a shared activity so guests know what to expect.

Think about arrival details

A home birthday may need directions, a doorbell name or access instructions. Keep sensitive addresses for appropriately authorized invitees rather than putting them in a publicly searchable event listing.

Make headcount decisions from RSVPs

Use Going and Maybe replies as planning signals for food and seating. Invited guests must sign in to respond; their RSVP never proves that they arrived at the party.

Frequently asked questions

Can I send my birthday invitation as a link?

Yes. After creating the private birthday gathering, copy its guest invitation link and send it in your preferred messenger or email.

Can I organize a surprise birthday?

Yes. Add the surprise plan to the invitation description and share the guest link carefully with the right people.

Do I need to verify my age to create a private birthday invitation?

No date of birth is required for the private invitation creation flow. Age rules for public social and dating features are separate.

Your plan, your guest link

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